Bastard Game: Part II
- December 8th, 2009
- Posted in Thought Cancer
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Game is a social skill-set for the effective knocking over of ass. However, no skill-set is perfect. Everyone has different aptitudes, and everyone’s Game needs tweaking to find what works for them.
Game is about being an Alpha-male. By demonstrating your higher position in the social hierarchy, you become more attractive to the opposite sex.
The Rules of Bastard Game were designed to help cultivate a specific posture.
“Carefree, mocking, violent. Thus wisdom wants us.
For she is a woman, she always loves a man of war.”
- Nietzsche; Genealogy of Morals
Alphas rise to the top of their social hierarchy because they embody manliness. They become leaders in their group, sometimes in spite of themselves, because they demonstrate the most Alpha traits. There is one Alpha trait that supersedes the rest: Strength.
All Game relies on the presentation of Alpha male qualities. Bastard Game forgoes some of the basic tactics of other styles to focus on one thing:
Rule 1: Be Indifferent
No matter what happens, don’t give a fuck. Don’t care. Do not put yourself out for anyone. Don’t lift one finger, don’t bat one eyelash. This isn’t a false posture. Indifference is the luxury of the Alpha male. He is calm and composed because, whatever happens, he can handle it.
Bastard Game: Tactics
Opening:
1. Never Approach. Game is like magic, it falls apart at the seams if the audience knows the trick. The more a woman has been approached, the more savvy she will be to your approach, no matter how subtle.
In order to close the distance, consider:
The Drive-By: Open on the move. You are a walking, negging machine. If you’re with a wingman, even better. You’ll already be in conversation and you can casually toss a comment over your shoulder. Is it an approach? . . . eh. Not if you couldn’t care less and keep on walking.
The Tactical Advantage: Being parked in an approachable position is a good thing. Sitting at the bar seems ideal – you’re automatically talking over your shoulder, for one – but there are too many distractions (i.e. the bartender). Find the high-ground, where people must approach or pass you on your terms.
2. Subliminal Social Proof. Remember Rule 3 – if you’re in a familiar place, then you’ll be shaking hands with everyone from the bouncer to the bartender. Every person you talk to publicly builds your Social Proof. The more others notice, the less strange it will seem if you randomly drop a comment in their lap.
If you’re in a strange place, have a wing come in a few minutes late. Give yourself enough time to get the layout. Grab some tactical advantage, or move near a set, and let your wing run into you. He is so glad to see you that he’ll even buy you a round.
If you’re solo, make new friends. Men are more important than women. If you’re truly leader of the pack, nothing will show it better than the way other men act around you. Once they start telling you stories to impress you, start making that face that attractive women make when a man is boring them.
You are an Alpha. People are glad to know you, and they want to make you happy. Seeking a female’s attention overtly is like asking for approval. Asking is begging. Don’t ask them to be interested in you, make them feel out of place if they are not.
3. Turnabout. This is always fair play. Females always arrive in groups, they dress the part, their value is obvious. That is, their valuables are obvious. All of this is bait – Come impress me, Mr. Alpha. Win my approval.
Asking is begging, and begging is contemptible. Even from a female.
They display all of these approval-seeking behaviors. Deny them that approval. Only open a set enough to start a conversation. Fuck your routines. Don’t run off at the mouth with stupid stories.
Opening a set is nothing more than an invitation for them to entertain you. You are the Alpha male. You know your worth. Now let them prove theirs to you. Beauty alone isn’t enough – you’ve seen it before – you aren’t swayed by it. They have to demonstrate real value. Let them buy you drinks, or else just offer to blow you in the bathroom.
Working a Set:
1. Neg, Neg, Neg. Remember, this isn’t about their approval, it’s about yours. Make them want it, then dole it out in small doses.
2. Smile. Let them see you smile . . . at other people. Smile when you talk to your wing before you open. Smile when you talk to the Staff. Smile for females, not at them. They’ll have to earn it.
Wait for them to give you Indicators of Interest. After a few, feed a smile. Work your own Indicators sparingly, like Pavlovian conditioning. If you have her on the hook, she’ll escalate for you. Once she does, follow suit.
3. Bounce. As soon as you have her/them/it on the hook, get the fuck out of there. Once escalation starts, it’s only a matter of time before the location gets stale and your Game stalls.
Express displeasure at your surroundings. Demand to change them.
Either regard the new venue as more interesting, and use the girls you hooked for Social Proof as you work the new place . . .
OR
Be skeptical of the new venue’s ability to please you. Turn your attention back to the girls, inviting them to please you.
Closing:
1. Fuck Numbers. If anyone should be giving out their phone number, it’s you. If she’s really interested, she’ll call.
2. Plan B. In case your swaggering Alpha demeanor intimidates her, strike up a tentative plan to do something, somewhere, sometime soon. It gives her an excuse to call you.
3. Escalate. If you’re not escalating her skirt by now, lose interest.
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Hey Ted Bundy had the game figured out, if it worked for him, it should work for almost anyone